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Not Splitting Hairs: Divorce and Widowed Women In the Observant Jewish Community

Modern Judaism, Pastoral care, Women's Forum

by Mitch Morrison

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed here are that of the writer and do not necessarily represent the views of the Union for Traditional Judaism, unless otherwise indicated.

UTJ Viewpoints Contributor Mitch Morrison’s letter to the Jewish Link Editor responds to prior letters discussing the challenges for divorced and widowed women in the observant Jewish community.

I am neither a rabbi nor a scholar. But I do get nervous when someone offers absolutes to heartfelt questions that warrant thoughtful consideration and a deep review of the sources. …

The issue of a woman’s hair covering is more complex than just splitting hairs. …

So, for divorced and widowed women, our Halacha on this issue and others cited in the January 26 letter is not monolithic. My hope is you’ll find a rav who can guide you with compassion and appreciation to your situation. And that whatever you ultimately decide, you will be supported.

Read Mitch’s letter at https://jewishlink.news/letters/42316-not-splitting-hairs.  The original letter to the editor “Don’t Forget the Divorced and Widowed” is available here.  A prior response to this letter, “Revisiting the Divorced and Widowed” is available here.

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